Mississippi group fights child-custody law change
February 1988
HATTIESBURG, Miss. - A national advocate for fathers' rights
disagrees with a local group that wants to change child custody law in
Mississippi.
The Hattiesburg chapter of Dads Against Discrimination is
circulating a petition in an effort to gain public support for fathers
in custody battles.
Bonnie Hathorne, leader of DADS, estimates that about 250 people
have signed the petitions since she began circulating them in the
fall.
"What we are trying to get is physical joint custody," Hathorne
said. "We think fathers need more time with their children than just
two weekends a month."
Victor Smith, president of a national unrelated group called DADS,
called the concept good, but not practical. "Joint custody is a
concept we do not support because it doesn't necessarily solve the
problem," he said.
"When a man and woman unfortunately go through a divorce, they have
signed papers saying they have irreconcilable differences. Why, would
you want to put a child in the middle of that?"
Hattiesburg psychologist Beverly Smallwood said joint custody, can
be a difficult arrangement, but it depends on the relationship of the
parents. "It really takes a lot of ability to communicate and
resolve differences," she said. "Typically, though, if they would have
been able to do that, they would have stayed married."
Smallwood said joint custody can become more challenging as
children get older and schools get involved, because parents may not
live in the same school district. Having to juggle schools and
living arrangements can be a struggle, Smallwood said.
Sen. Jim Bean, R-Hattiesburg, said he is not familiar with a joint
custody bill proposed by the local group.
"My bottom line interest is whatever is in the best interests of
the child," said Bean, who is chair of the state Senate public health
committee.